so today, i have this determination to update this blog. i should write something. anything.
and because right now I'm missing my husband so much, i decide to pick him as the main subject of this writing.
my husband-he is in offshore field right now-is a handsome man in the eyes of his wife. but that does not make me instantly fall for him--he is, to be honest, just not my type. In our early encounters, I assumed that he was kinda stiff, lack of humor-type of man. i did not feel so comfortable around him at first. but he was so persistent (he said it was one of his strategy: "dipepet terus sampai mau")and eventually, we spent more time together--from breakfast to dinner, movies, beach etc. if i did not want to spend time outside my dorm (because I'm too lazy), then he would come and ask me to accompany him eat something in the nearby food shop. i ended up getting used to his presence. and he was not the man that i thought to be anymore. he is actually funny (in his own cute way), kind, and very patient. i become so open up and be myself in front of him. slowly i fall for him :)
right now we've been married for almost 4 months.
it feels so GREAT.
yes, we have argued many times. i'm a sensitive person and he is, well, he is just a MAN. we apparently have different point of view towards many things. clashes are unavoidable.
nonetheless, it is still very beautiful to share your life with someone you love
it is pleasant to have him holding my hands
it is amazing to have him hugging me before we fall asleep
it is a sacred moment when we learn Al-Qur'an together
it is funny whenever he puckers his lips like a fish, asking me to kiss him
and everything is under the right way, the strong marriage bond.
I love you my husband, Prayudi Noverri
wish us the greatest life together forever :)